
Not long ago I read a newspaper article that advised parents to give children as many dollars a week of pocketmoney as their age. Four dollars seemed to me an awful lot to hand to Boo at once every Saturday, and I didn't like the idea of 'money for nothing'.
Boo is generally happy to help around the house, and I expect him to pick up his room, put his dirty cups, plates and cutlery away, and help me make beds (he takes great pride is arranging the pillows 'just so'). But now we have added one more task -- emptying the clean dishwasher in the mornings, and it is this job which we have decided to pay for.
Emptying the dishwasher properly takes a small boy at least 10 full minutes. I expect all items (within reason) to be properly stacked and put away, even if that means Boo needs to pull over a chair and stand on it to reach high cupboards. If he does the job with no complaints and asks for minimal help, I pay a premium. I also pay each day once the job has been completed to my safisfaction. And, as a further part of the deal, his earned money can be spent on anything he wishes (even sweets, but only reasonable quantities of those, or some are put away for another day).
So far, this system has worked wonders. Boo's work is actually an enormous help to me, as the job is done well and with pride, and I have time to complete other housework while he is busy. He generally decides to save his money, and last weekend was able to buy a brand new PowerRangers suit (at half price) from Kmart entirely out of his savings.
He's even started asking Granny and Papa if they have any paid jobs for him!
PS In the picture above Lexa stayed the night, and in the morning Boo allowed her to help with his job (he loved explaining just what to do, and directed her very effectively), then they shared the payment.